Welcome to SOTE, Krik!
SOTE is a lot more active by far (though I'm not really a member myself over at ROTE, but that's what my resources tell me!)
However, don't let the biggness and activeness deter you. :) SOTE is full of a lot of friendly and active members, and should you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask us :D
Also, like on ROTE, there's a c-box located on the main page (at the bottom) if you ever want to stop by to say hello!
Anywho! Welcome aboard and I hope you have fun writing with us!
-the spice